
💛 Honest Reflections: The highs, lows, and “why didn’t anyone tell me?!” moments of motherhood.
💛 Helpful Advice: Practical tips for balancing parenting, health, life, and work.
💛 Real Connection: A space to feel seen, laugh, and learn—no judgement, no filters.
Ever felt like there’s an unspoken “Secret Mums Club” where no one tells you about the messy, confusing, or overwhelming parts of parenthood? I didn’t sign up for that club either. That’s why I created What Mummy Didn’t Know—to pull back the curtain and share the real, unfiltered truths of being a new, older, working mum raising a bilingual child.
After becoming a mum and navigating the responsibilities and challenges of raising a child, I became passionate about supporting other parents through their own beautiful, messy, and rewarding journey into parenthood. Parenthood is full of surprises—some magical, others overwhelming—and I believe it’s easier when we laugh, learn, and support each other along the way.
Hi! I’m Clare: mum to my Little Bean, full-time lecturer, and self-proclaimed expert at figuring things out the hard way! I hold degrees in Psychology and German Translation, am a qualified and experienced English language lecturer with nearly 20 years of teaching and training under my belt, and am also a certified parent coach. Combining my professional expertise with the lessons I’ve learned as a mum, I’m here to support you with laughter, insights, and practical tips to make the journey a little easier.
Whether you’re an overwhelmed new mum, navigating life as a working parent, or raising a bilingual child, I’ve got you covered with relatable insights, informed tips, and a healthy dose of humour.

My Health Journey: I share my personal experiences and research on physical and mental health during pregnancy, postpartum and parenting – with a special focus on older mums. I explore the issues and myths I’ve uncovered, offer inspiration for postpartum recovery, and share strategies for staying fit, healthy and sane as a working mum over 40!

My Mum Life Stories: Join me as I reflect on the emotions, challenges, and joys of parenting while balancing a career. From dealing with maternal worries to understanding children’s development, I share real-life anecdotes and practical advice I’ve discovered for managing life while navigating the demands of professional life as a working parent.

My Dual-Language Family : Follow my journey of raising a child in a bilingual environment. As a language teacher, I share practical ideas and personal reflections on fostering language skills, cultural understanding, and mental and emotional growth, drawing from my professional expertise and parenting experiences.
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